Phone sex can be one of the best experiences you and your guy can have together. Having great phone sex involves a lot more than just talking. In fact, it is all about conveying intimacy through touch. So, it goes without saying that your phone sex needs to be good. It is not only about having sex on the phone but conveying intimacy as well.
In order to get over that hurdle, start off by telling your partner that you are going to do something different, which will set the mood for what follows. Most people say sage as a precursor to having sex. This actually works because sage is the opposite of expectation, which makes the person who expects (you) feel uncomfortable. With this particular phone sex fantasy, your partner is going to feel anticipation, which is a great thing.
One great way to start off is to use masturbation techniques. Masturbation is an amazing way to not only to explore yourself but also to increase your arousal. If you have never done masturbation before, there are a number of great books and websites out there that offer great phone-sex tips that can guide you along the way. Once you are comfortable with the idea of masturbation as a great way to foreplay, then you can move forward with using phone sex.
Another great way to really blow her mind is to do sexting. Sexting is when you send sexy messages or photographs via phone, and then after you have sent them, your partner gets in the mood. Sexting is a great way to give some physical pleasure to your partner. It will leave her excited and aroused, which is exactly what you want.
You may also want to use some oral stimulation. This is something that many people miss, but it really does help to make a guy go crazy. There are also great tips out there that show how to perform oral sex on your partner. Once your partner is in this type of mood, it will be easier to go into regular sex.
Lastly, if your partner mentions that she would like to try phone sex, then you may want to take this as a cue to get started. If your partner is not comfortable with this concept, then it may take some time to let them know. But, once your partner says this, then now is the perfect time to start experimenting. Some say that it takes only ten minutes to get into this type of sex. So, if your partner has reservations about trying this type of sex, then now might be the time to start.
The best thing to do is not look at the negative things that your partner may say to you, but look at the positive things. If your partner mentions that she would like to try to talk dirty, then you need to start now. Find out what your partner likes to hear when she is sexting. If she mentions masturbation in the past, then you need to start practicing some masturbation together.
In order for phone sex to work, it is important for the both of you to be open and honest with one another. It does not matter if she says she wants to try dirty talk or that she likes a particular sexual position. Just keep an open mind and listen to what she wants. Once you have listened, just act accordingly. She may say she has a fantasy about you blowing her off, but that does not mean it is a good thing to do if you do not have the same fantasy. Just keep an open mind and do not try to force anything if your partner does not want to initiate a change in bed time routine.